Which Type/Level of TTCian Are You?

Hello..

If u happened to be a TTCian, by now, you should know there are several types/degrees/levels of TTCians.. There are as follows (1 is less serious, and 6 is the most serious):

 LEVEL 1
1. According to the expert/Dr, BOTH you and your DH are perfectly OKAY! The Drs said that you have no problem to get pregnant at all, and you just have to wait until the right time comes.. Yes, in other words, whenever that God permits, you will get pregnant eventually..

Solution to this?  Pray extra hard and besides that, you may go to to traditional treatments like berurut and consume some supplements to strengthen your womb..

LEVEL 2
2. YOU are perfectly FINE, but the problem comes from your HUSBAND.. This maybe due to low quality sperm, low-count sperm, or whatever relates to man's problems..

Solution to this? The husband needs to consume some medications to overcome the problems. Yes, there are lots of anti-oxidant products in the market nowadays that can boost male fertility.. 

LEVEL 3
3. Vice versa, your HUSBAND is 100% OKAY, but it seems that YOU are the one who are having problems. The problems might be due to PCOS, diabetes, endometriosis, tube blockage, fibroid etc etc etc..

Solution to this? As soon as reasonably possible, you need to consult your Dr and get the solutions from them. I believe that all of the women's common infertility problems can be cured through weight control, laparoscopy procedures, minor operations and etc.. Some like PCOS can be treated by taking meds.. This i believe requires lots of self-discipline. And the LAST resort MAYBE pregnancy via IVF or IUI..

LEVEL 4
4. According to expert, BOTH you and your husband have the infertility problems.. You might have any sort of common fertility problems as in level (3) above, and your husband is having the same problem as in item (2)..

Solution to this? You can still get pregnant via various infertility treatments as described above.. BOTH of you must undergo the treatment whether simultaneously or separately.. i.e if you have a PCOS and your husband is having a low count sperm, both needed to take different kind of supplements to overcome the problems separately..

LEVEL 5
5. BOTH you and your husband have problems, and because the problems are severe, you may ONLY resort to a pregnancy with CERTAIN/SPECIFIC treatments ONLY! i.e You can only be a mummy via IVF/ICSI due to the lost of both Fallopian tubes and of course the husband's sperms aren't that good,
THIS IS MY LEVEL!!

Solution to this? No other solutions rather than the specified/specific treatments recommended by the expert!

LEVEL 6
6. There's NO WAY you and your husband can get pregnant because of the defect by neither spouse. There's no treatment whatsoever can be used to help you get pregnant. i.e You are born without a uterus or the husband has no sperm at all..

Solution to this? As Muslims, surrogacy is "haram"... Therefore, you may only resort to adoption.



Ok, now..... Have u identified your type/level?


Whats my point anyway?


Look, if you are a TTCian, you must know what is your type of TTCian you are.. Some TTCians are different than the other TTCians.. You can't assume all are the same.. Some supplements might be useful to one, but the others are not.. Some procedures are relevant to one, but not the others....


Be careful for the words/advises given to others..

Be careful when you're suggesting certain products which maybe good for you and not the other TTCians..

Be careful when you said certain products are NOT GOOD, in fact the other TTCians have been consuming the said products and brings success..

Be careful in giving advises based on what have happened to you, this might not happen to other TTCians..you dont need to make any necessary "panic-attack" towards the other TTCians..


Ok? Baby dust to all........ :)



p/s- The list above may not be accurate and may not be as precise.. This is just a general classifications based on my readings... Good luck all.. :)