Infertility Problems - Face it!

I received a shocking call from my old friend, a husband, who has been married for 3 years and no babies yet. I always knew him for being a cheerful man, funny and super friendly.When he called me, I knew that something might be wrong. And true enough, he told me that how stressful he was when people around him kept asking him about not having any babies, yet.. He was no longer a cheerful and happy-go-lucky-man like i used to know him.

This is another solid evidence on how infertility problems that you are having with your spouse might KILL your personality, MURDER your confidence, MANSLAUGHTER your relationship with the people around you!

However, infertility problems should not be an excuse for you to change at all. You can change in the sense of appreciating your spouse, loving kids even more, never failed performing solat-solat sunat, reading surah Maryam everyday, donating and doing charitable works etc..etc..

Be open to the people around you. Tell them how you feel towards your problems. I knew quite a number of friends who have stopped attending school reunions, kenduri-kendara, family gatherings and others, just because of their failure to conceive after years of marriage. This should not be the way, as we can't forever RUN from our problems. We just simply have to FACE IT!

Face the problems with maturity and I believe that Allah has some other plans awaiting for us in Jannah, insyaallah.

And for those who are still "hiding", i just wanna let you know that.....


YOU ARE NOT ALONE!